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Welcome! I’m Jason Mellard.
I am committed to empowering men who are experiencing unwanted same-sex attraction or negative habits to live the life they truly desire, through the power of Christ and for the glory of God.
I coach men to live beyond their unwanted attractions or habits and into their purpose, so they can own their identity and magnify their impact.
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