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Welcome! I’m Jason Mellard.
I am committed to empowering men who are experiencing same-sex attraction or destructive habits to live a life aligned with their values and dreams, through the power of Christ and for the glory of God.
I coach men to live beyond their same-sex attractions and into their purpose, so they can own their identity and magnify their impact.
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Coaching Programs
OWN YOUR IDENTITY
In this 10-week program, you will gain power over your unwanted same-sex attractions and destructive habits and leverage them as stepping stones to enter into an empowered life of purpose and connection, for your greatest joy and in maximum service to God and others. READ MORE
MAGNIFY YOUR IMPACT
This 12 session High Performance Coaching program empowers you to reach heightened levels of clarity, energy, courage, productivity, and influence towards a successful, healthy, and fully charged life that makes a kingdom impact. READ MORE
Recent Posts
Fear Magnifies Your Same-Sex Attractions
Fear makes things bigger. It’s the shadow of a bedside toy looming as a monster on the wall. It grows with time, exaggerates risk, fosters isolation, and veils your dreams. Left unchecked, it keeps you stuck. It has for me. FEAR COSTS US Sitting at my...
Demystify Your Attractions
Attraction is multifaceted. It comes in all shapes and sizes. By identifying the attractions we feel, we remind ourselves they are simply experiences. They do not define who we are. We can appreciate their messages and leverage them to grow. During a recent...
My Story
I don’t have what it takes to be a man. That’s what I told myself. I have a vivid memory of my dad and me wrestling. He called it wrestling. I know now it was physical abuse. He would pin me down and tell me to break free. But with the same effort I used...
Choose Your Frequency
Have negative thoughts snowballed on you? The more attention and influence I give them, the louder and more frequent they become. I get tuned in to them. Here is an analogy I bring to mind when I get into a negative cycle. Picturing myself building the antennas I’ll...
Embrace Pursuit to Live Fully Alive
I want to live full out. That has been my desire and God’s design but often not my experience. When I honor and learn from both my healthy and unhealthy pursuits, I open myself up to experience more of the purpose-filled life God intended for me as His unique...
Leverage Your Same-Sex Attraction for Personal Growth
When I discovered my same-sex attraction, I believed it was the nail in the coffin to achieving the masculinity I had dedicated time to study and model. SSA was a big “F” on my manliness report card. Removing it from my life was on my to-do list for being accepted and...
How to Redirect Desire by Owning Your Emotions
In my last blog post, I described a day in which I first felt intense physical desire toward another man. My mind and body felt certain that acting on those desires would provide relief from my uncomfortable emotions of fear, self-doubt, and anxiety. I didn’t have the...
Harness Mindfulness to Neutralize Same-Sex Attraction
For many years, I was on the defensive against my same-sex attractions and strong emotions. My desire to deny and avoid them kept me from being mindful of my thoughts and feelings surrounding them. I was blocking myself from two powerful tools that diminish their...
Why Your Same-Sex Attractions are Not a Problem
Problems standing in the way of achieving a goal need a solution. Your same-sex attractions, on the other hand, don’t need to be solved. They are just experiences you are having that can be observed and acknowledged, but don’t need to be acted on, circumvented, or...